ill-timed laughter
back in high school, someone told me i didn't have a sense of humor. in college, someone rather snidely said to me that "you laugh at what you laugh at" as if it were an insult. both times, my feelings were a little hurt and i tried to find more humor in what they considered funny. how stupid is that? sure, another person can influence your sense of humor (look no further than cam and his sister for that), but is it even possible to deliberately subvert yourself enough to change yours? don't answer that. i understand about the loss of identity, blah blah blah clonecakes, that can happen in relationships, but the way you approach the funny should always uniquely be your own.