mindset
someone told me today that all men think -- when it comes to the women in their lives -- that if said women don't share their hobbies and interests, other men would probably be able to interest them in those same hobbies and interests.
this is probably true. (at least his sister agrees that it's true.) unless you are completely set in your ways and anti-change, your view can probably be modified with the proper encouragement. therefore, if someone ever confronts you with this, i would say that the appropriate response would be "hell yeah, you stupid dumbass, you clearly had the wrong approach."